Why I believe you deserve calm, continuous care

Becoming a midwife wasn’t just a career decision – it was deeply personal. After welcoming my own three children at home, I experienced the power of feeling safe, supported, and truly listened to during birth. Those moments shaped me, and now, they guide how I care for others.

This is the kind of midwifery I believe in: calm, compassionate, and centred around you.

If you’re here, it’s likely because you’re looking for something more than standard care.

Maybe you’re feeling a little lost in the system – unsure if your voice will be heard, or if your choices will really be respected.

Perhaps you’re carrying anxiety from a previous birth, or simply want this experience to feel calm, positive, and personal.

You want to feel safe. You want to feel seen.
You want to feel confident as you bring your baby into the world.

What you can expect from The Compassionate Midwife?

Personalised, Home-Based Appointments

In your space, on your terms, no waiting rooms or rushed checklists.

Calm, Steady Support

You’ll never have to repeat your story to a stranger, I’ll be with you throughout.

Informed, Respectful Guidance

I’ll never pressure you. I’ll simply offer evidence-based support so you can make empowered choices.

Whole-Person Support

Your emotional wellbeing is just as important as your physical health. 

Hello I’m Kirsti

I’m a mother of three, former children’s nanny, and now an independent midwife offering calm, continuous care across Norfolk and Suffolk.

After working within the NHS for six years, I chose to step into independent practice in January 2025. I believe every family deserves personalised, gold-standard care that truly centres around them, not the clock, not the system.

Whether you’re preparing for your first baby or hoping to rewrite your story after a difficult experience, I’m here to provide a safe, grounded space where your choices are respected, your feelings are held, and your voice is always heard.

From early pregnancy support through to birth planning, home birth attendance, and gentle postnatal care, I walk alongside you in the comfort of your own home – offering calm, kind guidance through each stage of your journey.

When I’m not supporting families, you’ll usually find me baking, enjoying long walks, or spending time in nature. I love the quiet reset that comes from fresh air and simple moments – much like the kind of calm, steady care I aim to offer as a midwife.

Ready to feel calm, supported, and truly heard?

Let’s start with a free, no-pressure chat — just a gentle chat to explore if we’re the right fit.